How to put an end to the erroneous behavior of teenagers

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Adolescents often lack the wisdom and experience to know the limits of their actions, they fall into errors sometimes be heavy. Therefore, the role of parents is to draw the borders of these actions

Through many ways the exception of violence or use of force; because it would complicate the situation even more, leading to more and more intransigence teenager.

Putting limits on the erroneous behavior of teenagers in fact requires high skill by both parents, and border on the face of diplomatic dialogue.

Teach others requires patience

According to a Brazilian study competent psychological and social affairs to teach others in general is not easy, and it requires a lot of patience and a willingness to take questions, and respond to them. And education of adolescents in particular, is a complex process to a large extent, especially if they feel that it teaches them in derision, or younger than their business. Teenager is believed to be able to understand everything or rather thinks he knows everything, and therefore teach him new information must be in a manner be at the same level.
I'm the best

'I'm the best' is one of the favorite phrases among adolescents; Due to the narrow horizon of thinking, which makes them think they are the best, and the scientific reason for this is the changes that occur in both male and female hormones have. So you can understand the difficulty of convincing teenager that some of his actions are wrong. So it is advisable sociologists following four ways when you try to put a border teenager's actions, namely:

First - Give your teenager a chance to express himself
Parents often rush in the transfer rules of conduct to Mrahekayam without giving them room to express themselves.

This method is wrong; because the teenager will find that it is obliged to do or not to do a certain behavior without prior dialogue. The magazine said that it should be the parents or teachers in schools given the opportunity in front of the adolescent to express himself, and then move the new information; because it would be willing to listen only when it expresses itself first.

Secondly - Be logically coherent
Parents should be logically coherent in explaining things to Mrahekayam, and this means a cultural sense of enjoyment and possession of adequate information, about the topics that you want to move for a teenager.

Personal parents cohesion is necessary to convince him to received ideas. It is also the logic adolescent education on ethical rules that parents are not enjoy ethic benign.

Third - Be fair
Hateful things when a teenager is when he finds prejudice against him. Therefore, parents should be fair right Mrahekayam; to avoid oppression. She emphasized that the adolescent sense of injustice makes it more rebellion against the rules and assets.

The teenager should be taught how to redress the rights of others; because if you do not realize that it would not be fair to right itself.

Fourth - Do not forget your values ​​and your principles
The values ​​and principles that we enjoy is that convince teenagers including talking, and including ننقله them.

I wanted to give a lecture to teenage son or daughter about honesty you must be honest. The values ​​and principles that we enjoy is that helps us to move the border, that we want to set for adolescents, and made them take them seriously. There is no point of trying to teach them valuable not enjoyed by parents.

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