How do you deal with the person spam?

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Everyone has people are passive in their lives and they Bahbathm between now and then, and make the best worst days, and probably can not be avoided, and forcing you to deal with them
Repeatedly, and so one must find the best ways to reduce the impact of such alarming figures, negative, and what are some ways that make dealing with them easier.

Identify the individual

At first before judging the person as a negative or not, one must study his character, it is likely that owns all those conditions make them passive in certain moments, and the fact that a person is acting passively or criticized negatively does not mean that a person negative all the time, and may be In the moment that occur passively was undergoing its worst days, so one must spend enough time with the person to determine whether consistently negative or is it acting passively when exposed to only compelling circumstances.

Verification of opinion

After you determine that the person you are dealing with a negative, does not mean that his opinion is always wrong being a human being negative, and one must when you received the opinion or criticism from human negative, to investigate the extent of contact this view of reality, and to what extent it can be applied or act upon it, and when you are sure of the validity of this opinion can be argued that this view is worth to be taken into account, and therefore can detect that this person is realistic rather than negative and pessimistic.

Choose the most appropriate question

To make sure of the validity of opinion issued by the person passive and regardless of the person, you can choose some of the questions and to look at their answers and through which determine whether this opinion is worth thinking about it or not, and of those questions that can be used, why ?

Can ask one person's negative directly Why did you choose this opinion or idea, and through his answer could determine the extent of the importance of his opinion, if the answer stems from the said experience like (because life is going so, or I do not know ... etc.) would prefer not to lend any attention to such ideas and opinions, and However, if the answer was the result of a series of analyzes and logical thinking a study of the data, the results, it can be said that the opinion is worth looking at and thinking about it.

In the end, if this person downside of relatives or family members or co-workers, and show that people who should not be taking their view, could be avoided as much as possible, or listen to them without consideration or give any importance to their ideas, and solve problems and succession away from them.

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